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10. working with a wife

When I write a song, she says, “Is it about me?” When I say no, she says, “Why not?”

She's busy. She likes to work long hours, and she likes to go out afterwards. She likes to travel on the weekends, or do more work. She works in Kosovo, and that's why I'm here. She works at her office, and I work at home. When I record a song, she says, “Can I sing?”

I said, “OK. Here's some music for you to practice.”

I sent her a few tracks to listen to, but I don't think she really got around to practicing much. She's busy. But she did well even without practicing, because she's that way. She recorded all her parts in one weekend, between going out and working. I thought it might be hard to work together, but it wasn't so hard. I thought it would be hard because she knows my tricks. Occasionally she said things like, “Are you just saying that to be encouraging, when in fact I'm not doing so well?” And it's true. Being encouraging when things aren't going well is a good way to be in the studio. It's a good trick to use. But I didn't need to trick her. Things went well.

“We need a record cover,” I told her. “We'll pose you like Cyndi Lauper on the cover, except we'll do it on the beach, or in the woods.” But we never got around to it. She's busy, working long hours and traveling. Instead I pulled some lamps into the bedroom and posed her on the bed in front of the only blank wall I could find in our whole apartment. It was late at night, and I imagined our silhouettes spilling out into the parking lot.

I didn't write these songs, but whenever I do write a song, she asks me, “Is it about me?” Sometimes I say, no. But usually the real answer is—to some degree at least—yes. Yes they usually are. Why not? She's why I'm here.